God did not create us to be alone (Genesis 2:18). In fact, in Hebrews 10:25, God admonishes us to establish a pattern of “not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as (we) see the Day drawing near.” He wants us to be in fellowship. He created us for relationship. Oh, how marvelous it would be if man hadn’t fallen! Relationships would be as they were intended: generous, edifying, cooperative, fun, relaxed, and stress free. And, in literal , physical and spiritual, unhindered communion and fellowship with the Lord!
But, man, in his pursuit of exercising his inherent free will to his advantage, blew it. And we are left with the fallout of trying to maintain relationships in a perverted, fallen, sinful world as perverted, fallen, sinful people. But take heart! God, in his infinite, grace-fueled providence left us a guide. His Word, consummated in the person of Jesus Christ, is a map designed to help and instruct us in navigating the unpaved, muddy, tortuous, perilous roads of life. And the most important road on that map is the rocky, constantly under construction road of relationship.
Reflect
Read the following Scriptures:
What is the common thread that runs through all of these Scriptures in regard to relationships?
Read Matthew 6:12-15, Luke 6:37, and Colossians 3:13. What is the common thread running through these scriptures?
Read Romans 5:8 and 2 Corinthians 5:17. How should these amazing and grace-filled verses compel us to view relationships— especially difficult ones— in a different light?
We have seen how God would have us respond rightly within relationships with others. We know we cannot relate to others as God would have us to in our own strength. Only the indwelling of the Holy Spirit and constant interaction with God’s word enable us to respond in a way that pleases God.
But what do we do with the feelings that bubble up (or erupt) involuntarily when we are hurt, or angry, or betrayed, or frustrated, or when everyone else is plain wrong but just can’t see it (I say that last one with a bit of cheekiness)?
Read the following Scriptures as you reflect on the above question:
Record your reflection.
Pray
Father, thank you that you have not left us alone. You have kept us in your care through your Son, through the indwelling of your Spirit, and through the guidance of your good and true Word. Please help us in our relationships, that we would be Christ to all we encounter, no matter our differences or struggles. Help us to be forgiving, grace-filled followers of your precious Son.
Amen